There’s a point in every long fight where the goal stops being […]
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We don’t talk about it enough — how the little glowing screen […]
Read More When the Phone Becomes the Third Person in the Marriage
When the Phone Becomes the Third Person in the Marriage
There’s a kind of silence I’ve, over time, learned to live with.And […]
Read More A Man Can’t Protect What Constantly Fights Him
A Man Can’t Protect What Constantly Fights Him
My wife thinks talking things out means debating until one of us […]
Read More When Argument Is Mistaken for Maturity
When Argument Is Mistaken for Maturity
I stay because I am afraid of breaking something inside my son […]
Read More Why I Stay: A Father’s Fear of Passing Down Generational Trauma
Why I Stay: A Father’s Fear of Passing Down Generational Trauma
The past few weeks have been a bit depressing especially since I’ve […]
Read More Happy Father’s Day!
Happy Father’s Day!
Most of the biggest fights in my marriage don’t start from something […]
Read More When Emotion Overrules Logic
When Emotion Overrules Logic
If you told me years ago that I’d one day be writing […]
Read More The Underground Miracle: Caring for African Nightcrawlers and the Art of Vermicomposting
The Underground Miracle: Caring for African Nightcrawlers and the Art of Vermicomposting
We hear it everywhere now — “Marriage should be equal.”And that sounds […]
Read More When Equality Replaces Harmony
When Equality Replaces Harmony
I didn’t expect this article to get as much mileage as it’s […]
Read More When Cooperation Turns Into Control
When Cooperation Turns Into Control
I should be miserable right now. I have every right to be. […]
Read More I Should be Miserable Right Now, so Why am I Thankful?
I Should be Miserable Right Now, so Why am I Thankful?
Marriages are hurting today because people are tired, distracted, and chasing the […]
Read More Why Marriages Are Hurting Today (And Why Serving Each Other Is the Cure We Forgot)
